Oct 29 2009
Babies
So my partner is having a baby in April. Its still a bit abstract at the moment. What is not abstract is the fear. We have had some complications and due to her age we don’t get a dedicated midwife.
Yes because we are higher risk we don’t get a dedicated professional…Yes it seems odd to me too. So we have a hospital midwife who depending on when we call (so far every time we call) is not on call or busy else where.
This would be ok if we hadn’t got some bad results that are scaring the crap out of us. Oh and because we live in the age of make your own choices blah blah, no one gives advice anymore. They always give you ‘options’ and you have to choose. No one tells you what you should do.
Now this seems ok but the hospital people have done this a hundred times, we have never been here before. We would to get some help making a decision not just caring smiles.
Oh well, next round of tests on Monday… This is going to be a long six months
Who's in command here?